Skip the Small Talk at Aeronaut

EVENT START-END&nbsp;| 6:30 pm - 8:30 pm ET CHECK-IN BEGINS&nbsp;| 6:15 pm ET WHERE&nbsp;| Aeronaut, 14 Tyler St, Somerville, MA 02143 (<a href="https://goo.gl/maps/mJNCMVAca1qdTQ3o8">map</a>) AGE RANGE&nbsp;| All Ages: While many folks who attend our events are in their 20s and 30s, all guests of all ages will be enthusiastically welcome! FOOD/DRINKS&nbsp;| Beer, nonalcoholic beverages, Venezuelan food from&nbsp;<a href="https://www.carolicious.net/#menu">Carolicious</a>&nbsp;(with allergy-friendly options), and gourmet chocolate will be for sale. PARKING / PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION&nbsp;| Limited parking lot spots and street parking may be available nearby, but public transportation is recommended. ACCESSIBILITY &amp; OTHER VENUE DETAILS&nbsp;| Wheelchair accessible, gender-affirming bathrooms available, 21+ with government-issued ID’s required, optional noise isolation devices used. For ASL and any other accommodations not listed, please see more info&nbsp;<a href="https://www.skipthesmalltalk.com/accessibility-and-safety">here</a>. COVID-19 PROCEDURES&nbsp;| Masking is optional, but recommended. What’s It Like? Do you wish you could have more of the kinds of conversations you have late at night where for some reason, you feel safe talking about the things you actually care about? Bring your friends (or come by yourself) and spend your Monday night at an event where you know everyone else is there for the same reason. We'll be offering "big talk" conversational prompts on them to get you started, and we'll have lots of structure to make sure that you actually talk to people and that it's not awkward. Not feeling like answering a particular question? No worries, we'll have plenty to choose from, like, "When are you the happiest?" and, "If you were going to become close friends with me, what would I need to know about you?" We'll give you ground rules to make sure you feel comfortable and safe sharing as much of yourself as possible while still feeling in complete control of how much you divulge. There will be food and beer for sale! Check-in&nbsp;for this event will begin around&nbsp;6:15 pm ET. Please do your best to arrive before 6:30pm so we can begin as close to on time as possible. Skip the Small Talk is dedicated to providing an inclusive, welcoming environment for everyone. Check out our safety policy here &nbsp;<a href="https://tinyurl.com/ststSafety">tinyurl.com/ststSafety</a>

Aeronaut

30s Speed-Dating (Monogamous)

EVENT START-END&nbsp;| 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm ET&nbsp; CHECK-IN BEGINS&nbsp;| 6:45 pm ET (Guests who are not in line to check in by 7:10 pm cannot be accommodated) WHERE&nbsp;| The Kartal, 520 Tremont St, Boston, MA 02118 (<a href="https://maps.app.goo.gl/86MsHohbw8CvsN1x5">map</a>) AGE RANGE&nbsp;| 30s: This event is centered on people in their 30s, but we welcome guests a year or two outside of that range who would feel comfortable dating people in the above age group. If you are outside of this age range, don't worry-- we have a lot of other events on our calendar, including all-ages events, that might be a better fit! Please be sure to bring your government-issued ID, as this venue is 21+. FOOD/DRINKS&nbsp;| Snacks, alcoholic, and nonalcoholic drinks will be available for purchase. PARKING / PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION&nbsp;| Parking is available in a nearby&nbsp;<a href="https://www.propark.com/facilities/parking-for-atelier-garage/">garage</a>. ACCESSIBILITY &amp; OTHER VENUE DETAILS&nbsp;| Wheelchair accessible.&nbsp;For ASL and any other accommodations not listed, please see more info&nbsp;<a href="https://www.skipthesmalltalk.com/accessibility-and-safety">here</a>. COVID-19 PROCEDURES&nbsp;| Masking is optional, but recommended. About This Event Want to get off your dating apps and meet someone in real life, but where you don’t have to find out that every cute person at the party is unavailable? Do you think that IRL speed dating is generally awkward and weird? So do we. That’s why we’re putting a Skip the Small Talk twist on dating. Skip the Small Talks are usually **NOT** for dating, but so many of y’all asked us for a dating event that we decided to make an exception! We'll be offering "big talk" conversation prompts to get you started, and we'll have lots of structure to make sure that you actually talk to people and that it's not awkward. Not feeling like answering a particular question? No worries, we'll have plenty to choose from, like, "When are you the happiest?" and, "If you were going to become close friends with me, what would I need to know about you?" We'll give you ground rules to make sure you feel comfortable and safe sharing as much of yourself as possible while still feeling in complete control of how much you share. There will be drinks and snacks for sale! Check-in for this event will begin around&nbsp;6:45 pm. Please do your best to arrive before&nbsp;7:00 pm&nbsp;so we can begin as close to on time as possible.&nbsp;Please note that there is an arrival cutoff, meaning that&nbsp;if you are not in line to check in before 7:10 pm, unfortunately, you will not be able to participate and we will not be able to offer refunds. Skip the Small Talk is dedicated to providing an inclusive, welcoming environment for everyone. Check out our safety policy here:&nbsp;<a href="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1fmhxMcSsdgkQYOZQZoUKC3DK511fDl3pcPyShB22W9s">Skip the Small Talk Safety Policy</a>

The Kartal

Poly Bi & Pan Speed-Dating (21+)

EVENT START-END | 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm ET CHECK-IN BEGINS | 6:30 pm ET WHERE | Trident Books, 338 Newbury St, Boston, MA 02115 (<a href="https://goo.gl/maps/YihENdP2FErFqu8N9">map</a>) AGE RANGE | 21+: This event is centered on people ages 21+ . If you are outside of this age range, don't worry-- we have a lot of other events on our calendar, including all-ages events, that might be a better fit! FOOD/DRINKS | The entire Trident <a href="https://www.tridentbookscafe.com/menu">menu</a> of food and alcoholic as well as nonalcoholic drinks will be available for purchase, with many allergy-friendly options for food and drinks. PARKING / PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION | Limited parking lot spots and street parking may be available nearby, but public transportation is recommended. ACCESSIBILITY &amp; OTHER VENUE DETAILS | Wheelchair accessible, gender-neutral bathrooms available, noise isolation devices used. For ASL and any other accommodations not listed, please see more info <a href="https://www.skipthesmalltalk.com/accessibility-and-safety">here</a>. COVID-19 PROCEDURES | Masking is optional, but recommended. About This Event Want to get off your dating apps and meet someone in real life, but where you don’t have to find out that every cute person at the party is unavailable? Do you think that IRL speed dating is generally awkward and weird? So do we. That’s why we’re putting a Skip the Small Talk twist on dating. Skip the Small Talks are usually **NOT** for dating, but so many of y’all asked us for a dating event that we decided to make an exception! We'll be offering "big talk" conversation prompts to get you started, and we'll have lots of structure to make sure that you actually talk to people and that it's not awkward. Not feeling like answering a particular question? No worries, we'll have plenty to choose from, like, "When are you the happiest?" and, "If you were going to become close friends with me, what would I need to know about you?" We'll give you ground rules to make sure you feel comfortable and safe sharing as much of yourself as possible while still feeling in complete control of how much you share. There will be food and drinks for sale! Check-in for this event will begin around 6:30 pm. Please do your best to arrive before 7:00 pm so we can begin as close to on time as possible. Please note that there is an arrival cutoff, meaning that if you are not in line to check in before 7:10 pm, unfortunately, you will not be able to participate and we will not be able to offer refunds. Skip the Small Talk is dedicated to providing an inclusive, welcoming environment for everyone. Check out our safety policy here: <a href="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1fmhxMcSsdgkQYOZQZoUKC3DK511fDl3pcPyShB22W9s">Skip the Small Talk Safety Policy</a>

Trident Books

LGBTQIA+ Skip the Small Talk at Trident Books

EVENT START-END | 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm ET CHECK-IN BEGINS | 6:30 pm ET WHERE | Trident Books, 338 Newbury St, Boston, MA 02115 (<a href="https://goo.gl/maps/YihENdP2FErFqu8N9">map</a>) AGE RANGE | All Ages: While many folks who attend our events are in their 20s and 30s, all guests of all ages will be enthusiastically welcome! FOOD/DRINKS | The entire Trident <a href="https://www.tridentbookscafe.com/menu">menu</a> of food and alcoholic as well as nonalcoholic drinks will be available for purchase, with many allergy-friendly options for food and drinks. PARKING / PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION | Limited parking lot spots and street parking may be available nearby, but public transportation is recommended. ACCESSIBILITY &amp; OTHER VENUE DETAILS | Wheelchair accessible, gender-neutral bathrooms available, noise isolation devices used. For ASL and any other accommodations not listed, please see more info <a href="https://www.skipthesmalltalk.com/accessibility-and-safety">here</a>. COVID-19 PROCEDURES | Masking is optional, but recommended. What’s It Like? Do you wish you could have more of the kinds of conversations you have late at night where for some reason, you feel safe talking about the things you actually care about? Bring your friends (or come by yourself) and spend your Wednesday night at an event where you know everyone else is there for the same reason. We'll be offering "big talk" conversational prompts on them to get you started, and we'll have lots of structure to make sure that you actually talk to people and that it's not awkward. Not feeling like answering a particular question? No worries, we'll have plenty to choose from, like, "When are you the happiest?" and, "If you were going to become close friends with me, what would I need to know about you?" We'll give you ground rules to make sure you feel comfortable and safe sharing as much of yourself as possible while still feeling in complete control of how much you divulge. There will be food and drinks for sale! Check-in for this event will begin around 6:30 pm. Please do your best to arrive before 7:00 pm so we can begin as close to on time as possible. Skip the Small Talk is dedicated to providing an inclusive, welcoming environment for everyone. Check out our safety policy here: <a href="https://tinyurl.com/ststSafety">tinyurl.com/ststSafety</a>

Skip the Small Talk at Trident Books

EVENT START-END&nbsp;| 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm ET CHECK-IN BEGINS&nbsp;| 6:30 pm ET WHERE&nbsp;| Trident Books, 338 Newbury St, Boston, MA 02115 (<a href="https://goo.gl/maps/YihENdP2FErFqu8N9">map</a>) AGE RANGE&nbsp;| All Ages: While many folks who attend our events are in their 20s and 30s, all guests of all ages will be enthusiastically welcome! FOOD/DRINKS&nbsp;| The entire Trident&nbsp;<a href="https://www.tridentbookscafe.com/menu">menu</a>&nbsp;of food and alcoholic as well as nonalcoholic drinks will be available for purchase, with many allergy-friendly options for food and drinks. PARKING / PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION&nbsp;| Limited parking lot spots and street parking may be available nearby, but public transportation is recommended. ACCESSIBILITY &amp; OTHER VENUE DETAILS&nbsp;| Wheelchair accessible, gender-neutral bathrooms available, noise isolation devices used.&nbsp;For ASL and any other accommodations not listed, please see more info&nbsp;<a href="https://www.skipthesmalltalk.com/accessibility-and-safety">here</a>. COVID-19 PROCEDURES&nbsp;| Masking is optional, but recommended. What’s It Like? Do you wish you could have more of the kinds of conversations you have late at night where for some reason, you feel safe talking about the things you actually care about? Bring your friends (or come by yourself) and spend your Wednesday night at an event where you know everyone else is there for the same reason. We'll be offering "big talk" conversational prompts on them to get you started, and we'll have lots of structure to make sure that you actually talk to people and that it's not awkward. Not feeling like answering a particular question? No worries, we'll have plenty to choose from, like, "When are you the happiest?" and, "If you were going to become close friends with me, what would I need to know about you?" We'll give you ground rules to make sure you feel comfortable and safe sharing as much of yourself as possible while still feeling in complete control of how much you divulge. There will be food and drinks for sale! Check-in&nbsp;for this event will begin around&nbsp;6:30 pm. Please do your best to arrive before 7:00 pm so we can begin as close to on time as possible. Skip the Small Talk is dedicated to providing an inclusive, welcoming environment for everyone. Check out our safety policy here:&nbsp;<a href="https://tinyurl.com/ststSafety">tinyurl.com/ststSafety</a> Ready to Skip the Small Talk With Us? Grab a ticket since entry is on a first come first serve basis and we tend to sell out in advance for these-- once we are out of tickets, we will NOT be able to accommodate folks at the door. Want to check out what else is going on at Trident Books? Check out their full event calendar&nbsp;<a href="https://www.tridentbookscafe.com/event">here</a>. If you want to be the first to hear about our events before we sell out, feel free to join our mailing list at&nbsp;<a href="http://eepurl.com/cFVhMX">Skip the Small Talk Mailing List Sign-Up</a>. See our Skip the Small Talk question prompt card deck (and buy your own if you want) <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Skip-Small-Talk-Card-Deck/dp/1507221975/">here</a>. If you want to get more of a vibe of what our events are like, check out our <a href="https://www.skipthesmalltalk.com/faq">FAQ</a> (which also covers stuff like our refund policy, arriving late, age range, and hiring us for corporate/ college/ private events).

EVENT START-END | 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm ET CHECK-IN BEGINS | 6:30 pm ET WHERE | Trident Books, 338 Newbury St, Boston, MA 02115 (<a href="https://goo.gl/maps/YihENdP2FErFqu8N9">map</a>) AGE RANGE | 30s: This event is centered on people in their 30s, but we welcome guests a year or two outside of that range who would feel comfortable dating people in the above age group. If you are outside of this age range, don't worry-- we have a lot of other events on our calendar, including all-ages events, that might be a better fit! FOOD/DRINKS | The entire Trident <a href="https://www.tridentbookscafe.com/menu">menu</a> of food and alcoholic as well as nonalcoholic drinks will be available for purchase, with many allergy-friendly options for food and drinks. PARKING / PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION | Limited parking lot spots and street parking may be available nearby, but public transportation is recommended. ACCESSIBILITY &amp; OTHER VENUE DETAILS | Wheelchair accessible, gender-neutral bathrooms available, noise isolation devices used. For ASL and any other accommodations not listed, please see more info <a href="https://www.skipthesmalltalk.com/accessibility-and-safety">here</a>. COVID-19 PROCEDURES | Masking is optional, but recommended. About This Event Want to get off your dating apps and meet someone in real life, but where you don’t have to find out that every cute person at the party is unavailable? Do you think that IRL speed dating is generally awkward and weird? So do we. That’s why we’re putting a Skip the Small Talk twist on dating. Skip the Small Talks are usually **NOT** for dating, but so many of y’all asked us for a dating event that we decided to make an exception! We'll be offering "big talk" conversation prompts to get you started, and we'll have lots of structure to make sure that you actually talk to people and that it's not awkward. Not feeling like answering a particular question? No worries, we'll have plenty to choose from, like, "When are you the happiest?" and, "If you were going to become close friends with me, what would I need to know about you?" We'll give you ground rules to make sure you feel comfortable and safe sharing as much of yourself as possible while still feeling in complete control of how much you share. There will be food and drinks for sale! Check-in for this event will begin around 6:30 pm. Please do your best to arrive before 7:00 pm so we can begin as close to on time as possible. Please note that there is an arrival cutoff, meaning that if you are not in line to check in before 7:10 pm, unfortunately, you will not be able to participate and we will not be able to offer refunds. Skip the Small Talk is dedicated to providing an inclusive, welcoming environment for everyone. Check out our safety policy here: <a href="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1fmhxMcSsdgkQYOZQZoUKC3DK511fDl3pcPyShB22W9s">Skip the Small Talk Safety Policy</a>

BIPOC Skip the Small Talk at Long Live Roxbury

EVENT START-END&nbsp;| 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm ET&nbsp; CHECK-IN BEGINS&nbsp;| 7:00 pm ET WHERE&nbsp;| Long Live Roxbury, 152 Hampden St, Boston, MA 02119 (<a href="https://goo.gl/maps/nWxRdBi8x82TiwbL9">map</a>) AGE RANGE&nbsp;| 21+: While many folks who attend our events are in their 20s and 30s, all guests 21+ will be enthusiastically welcome! Please be sure to bring your government-issued ID, as this venue is 21+. FOOD/DRINKS&nbsp;| Delicious craft beer and non-alcoholic beverages will be available for sale. Check out more about Long Live Brewery&nbsp;<a href="https://www.longlivebeerworks.com/long-live-boston">here</a>! PARKING / PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION&nbsp;| Limited parking lot spots and street parking may be available nearby, but public transportation is recommended. ACCESSIBILITY &amp; OTHER VENUE DETAILS&nbsp;| Wheelchair accessible, gender-affirming bathrooms available, optional noise isolation devices used.&nbsp;For ASL and any other accommodations not listed, please see more info&nbsp;<a href="https://www.skipthesmalltalk.com/accessibility-and-safety">here</a>. COVID-19 PROCEDURES&nbsp;| Masking is optional, but recommended. What’s It Like? Due to popular demand, we are offering another speed-friending event led by and exclusively for BIPOC! All folks who identify as BIPOC (inclusive of people who identify as partially BIPOC) are enthusiastically welcome. Do you wish you could have more of the kinds of conversations you have late at night where for some reason, you feel safe talking about the things you actually care about? Bring your friends (or come by yourself) and spend your Monday night at an event where you know everyone else is there for the same reason. We'll be offering "big talk" conversational prompts on them to get you started, and we'll have lots of structure to make sure that you actually talk to people and that it's not awkward. Not feeling like answering a particular question? No worries, we'll have plenty to choose from, like, "When are you the happiest?" and, "If you were going to become close friends with me, what would I need to know about you?" We'll give you ground rules to make sure you feel comfortable and safe sharing as much of yourself as possible while still feeling in complete control of how much you divulge. There will be drinks for sale! Check-in&nbsp;for this event will begin around&nbsp;7:00 pm. Please do your best to arrive before 7:00 pm so we can begin as close to on time as possible. Skip the Small Talk is dedicated to providing an inclusive, welcoming environment for everyone. Check out our safety policy here:&nbsp;<a href="https://tinyurl.com/ststSafety">tinyurl.com/ststSafety</a>

Long Live Roxbury

Skip the Small Talk Online

Meaningful online conversations with strangers on Zoom that don't leave you drained. We use question prompts to spark unique convos. You may expect this event to run from 7:00 - 8:15pm ET About this event ***You'll need the event URL, so be sure to register in advance so we can send it to you. We'll send you an e-mail with the Zoom link a few minutes after you purchase a ticket (and we’ll also send it again the day of the event)-- please check both your “spam” AND “junk” folders if you don't see it!*** ---- These Zoom events are designed based in psychology research to give you all the warm fuzzy feelings of human closeness, without that feeling of Zoom-fatigue afterward. We use question prompts and a structure designed based in psychology research to help you get vulnerable with strangers in a way that actually feels safe, and that brings out the best in people. All our events are trauma-informed and facilitated by folks with therapeutic training. According to our surveys, a lot of our guests report feeling nervous about coming, but 100% of the people who say they were nervous also end up saying they were glad they came. There might be some selection bias going on, but we still think it's promising :) We even had an academic paper come out about our online events showing that they improve mood and reduce loneliness! Check that out here: <a href="https://static1.squarespace.com/static/5827683e6a49634bd84b79f4/t/614cfad6e033d105a07cc40f/1632434903586/preprint-28002-submitted.pdf">https://static1.squarespace.com/static/5827683e6a49634bd84b79f4/t/614cfad6e033d105a07cc40f/1632434903586/preprint-28002-submitted.pdf</a> What's it like? The whole thing is on Zoom. We'll put you into pairs in breakout rooms, and you'll switch partners so you're not just talking to the same person the whole night. We'll give you question prompts to spark conversations to make sure you're getting the most out of your conversations. Some examples of our research-backed prompts are, "What's something you're proud of that you don't usually get to share with people?" And, "What's something I would need to know about you in order to be friends with you?" But if you hate our prompts, you'll always be invited to make up your own or talk about whatever feels right. What do people say about it? Here's some stuff people have told us (unprompted!) about the online Skip the Small Talks: "I was surprised at how good this was! I'll definitely be coming back!" "This has turned into my regular self-care-- going to this event every month is something kind I do for myself to stay sane." "I'm an introvert, and to be honest, I even think of myself as someone who generally hates other people, but I actually feel energized after Skip the Small Talk online. For some reason, I feel Zoom fatigue in pretty much every other online interaction, but I'm usually, like, giddy after these." Ready to skip the small talk with us? After purchasing a ticket, you can expect an e-mail with the Zoom link to arrive within a few minutes (and we’ll also send it to you again on the day of the event). If you don't see it, check your spam folder! Please do your best to arrive a couple minutes before 7:00 pm ET if you haven't been to one of these before so you don't miss the intro, but feel free to come late if you need to-- you'll still be able to participate just fine! If you've come to an online Skip the Small Talk before and would rather skip the intro, feel free to come at 7:10 pm ET. Skip the Small Talk is dedicated to providing an inclusive, welcoming environment for everyone. Check out our safety policy here: <a href="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1fmhxMcSsdgkQYOZQZoUKC3DK511fDl3pcPyShB22W9s">https://docs.google.com/document/d/1fmhxMcSsdgkQYOZQZoUKC3DK511fDl3pcPyShB22W9s</a> Need accessibility accommodations? We are happy to offer Zoom captions and/or live ASL upon request. Due the use of one-on-one conversations in breakout rooms during the event, we request at least five days' notice to make sure we are able to provide an ASL interpreter for each person who needs them. Sometimes, we can provide an ASL interpreter on shorter notice, so even if it's closer to the event, please reach out to <a href="mailto:info@skipthesmalltalk.com">info@skipthesmalltalk.com</a> so we can discuss what we can do for you. We encourage guests to do what they need to in order to feel as comfortable as possible during the event, like taking breaks, eating, stretching, using fidget tools, getting up and moving, leaving early, etc. While we acknowledge that there is no such thing as a space that is perfectly accessible for everyone, we do what we can to welcome as many people as possible while prioritizing the needs of those who are systematically oppressed. If you have any accessibility needs that we might be able to help with, please reach out to us at <a href="mailto:info@skipthesmalltalk.com">info@skipthesmalltalk.com</a>. Want to keep up with our events? If you want to be the first to get access to tickets, and also get free exclusive content about how to improve your relationships, communicate more effectively, and more, join our mailing list at <a href="http://eepurl.com/cFVhMX">http://eepurl.com/cFVhMX</a> (don't worry, we hate mailing lists, too-- we only e-mail when we have something useful to tell you about, like new events). If you are interested in buying <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Skip-Small-Talk-Card-Deck/dp/1507221975/ref=sr_1_3?crid=NOG5QSW043EK&amp;keywords=skip%20the%20small%20talk%20cards&amp;qid=1703893740&amp;sprefix=skip%20the%20small%20tal%2Caps%2C181&amp;sr=8-3">Skip the Small Talk question prompt cards</a> to use in your everyday life, you can check those out <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Skip-Small-Talk-Card-Deck/dp/1507221975/ref=sr_1_3?crid=NOG5QSW043EK&amp;keywords=skip%20the%20small%20talk%20cards&amp;qid=1703893740&amp;sprefix=skip%20the%20small%20tal%2Caps%2C181&amp;sr=8-3">here</a>.

Online

Ace-Spectrum Bi & Pan Speed-Dating (20s and 30s)

EVENT START-END | 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm ET CHECK-IN BEGINS | 6:30 pm ET WHERE | Trident Books, 338 Newbury St, Boston, MA 02115 (<a href="https://goo.gl/maps/YihENdP2FErFqu8N9">map</a>) AGE RANGE | 20s-30s: This event is centered on people in their 20s-30s, but we welcome guests a year or two outside of that range who would feel comfortable dating people in the above age group. If you are outside of this age range, don't worry-- we have a lot of other events on our calendar, including all-ages events, that might be a better fit! FOOD/DRINKS | The entire Trident <a href="https://www.tridentbookscafe.com/menu">menu</a> of food and alcoholic as well as nonalcoholic drinks will be available for purchase, with many allergy-friendly options for food and drinks. PARKING / PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION | Limited parking lot spots and street parking may be available nearby, but public transportation is recommended. ACCESSIBILITY &amp; OTHER VENUE DETAILS | Wheelchair accessible, gender-neutral bathrooms available, noise isolation devices used. For ASL and any other accommodations not listed, please see more info <a href="https://www.skipthesmalltalk.com/accessibility-and-safety">here</a>. COVID-19 PROCEDURES | Masking is optional, but recommended. About This Event Want to get off your dating apps and meet someone in real life, but where you don’t have to find out that every cute person at the party is unavailable? Do you think that IRL speed dating is generally awkward and weird? So do we. That’s why we’re putting a Skip the Small Talk twist on dating. Skip the Small Talks are usually **NOT** for dating, but so many of y’all asked us for a dating event that we decided to make an exception! We'll be offering "big talk" conversation prompts to get you started, and we'll have lots of structure to make sure that you actually talk to people and that it's not awkward. Not feeling like answering a particular question? No worries, we'll have plenty to choose from, like, "When are you the happiest?" and, "If you were going to become close friends with me, what would I need to know about you?" We'll give you ground rules to make sure you feel comfortable and safe sharing as much of yourself as possible while still feeling in complete control of how much you share. There will be food and drinks for sale! Check-in for this event will begin around 6:30 pm. Please do your best to arrive before 7:00 pm so we can begin as close to on time as possible. Please note that there is an arrival cutoff, meaning that if you are not in line to check in before 7:10 pm, unfortunately, you will not be able to participate and we will not be able to offer refunds. Skip the Small Talk is dedicated to providing an inclusive, welcoming environment for everyone. Check out our safety policy here: <a href="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1fmhxMcSsdgkQYOZQZoUKC3DK511fDl3pcPyShB22W9s">Skip the Small Talk Safety Policy</a>

EVENT START-END&nbsp;| 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm ET&nbsp; CHECK-IN BEGINS&nbsp;| 7:00 pm ET (Guests who are not in line to check in by 6:45 pm cannot be accommodated) WHERE&nbsp;| Sam Adams Taproom, 60 State Street, Boston, MA, 02109 (<a href="https://maps.app.goo.gl/MFduazmQqbK3vG1b9?g_st=com.google.maps.preview.copy">map</a>) AGE RANGE&nbsp;| 30s: This event is centered on people in their 30s, but we welcome guests a year or two outside of that range who would feel comfortable dating people in the above age group. If you are outside of this age range, don't worry-- we have a lot of other events on our calendar, including all-ages events, that might be a better fit!&nbsp; FOOD/DRINKS&nbsp;| Alcoholic and non-alcoholic beverages as well as snacks will be available for sale.&nbsp; PARKING / PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION&nbsp;| Limited street parking available nearby. Also accessible by public transportation. ACCESSIBILITY &amp; OTHER VENUE DETAILS&nbsp;| Wheelchair accessible.&nbsp;For ASL and any other accommodations not listed, please see more info&nbsp;<a href="https://www.skipthesmalltalk.com/accessibility-and-safety">here</a>. COVID-19 PROCEDURES&nbsp;| Masking is optional, but recommended. About This Event Want to get off your dating apps and meet someone in real life, but where you don’t have to find out that every cute person at the party is unavailable? Do you think that IRL speed dating is generally awkward and weird? So do we. That’s why we’re putting a Skip the Small Talk twist on dating. Skip the Small Talks are usually **NOT** for dating, but so many of y’all asked us for a dating event that we decided to make an exception! We'll be offering "big talk" conversation prompts to get you started, and we'll have lots of structure to make sure that you actually talk to people and that it's not awkward. Not feeling like answering a particular question? No worries, we'll have plenty to choose from, like, "When are you the happiest?" and, "If you were going to become close friends with me, what would I need to know about you?" We'll give you ground rules to make sure you feel comfortable and safe sharing as much of yourself as possible while still feeling in complete control of how much you share. There will be drinks and snacks available for sale!&nbsp; Check-in for this event will begin around&nbsp;7:00 pm. Please do your best to arrive before&nbsp;7:00 pm&nbsp;so we can begin as close to on time as possible.&nbsp;Please note that there is an arrival cutoff, meaning that&nbsp;if you are not in line to check in before 6:45 pm, unfortunately, you will not be able to participate and we will not be able to offer refunds. Skip the Small Talk is dedicated to providing an inclusive, welcoming environment for everyone. Check out our safety policy here:&nbsp;<a href="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1fmhxMcSsdgkQYOZQZoUKC3DK511fDl3pcPyShB22W9s">Skip the Small Talk Safety Policy</a>

Sam Adams Taproom

20s Skip the Small Talk at Trident Books

EVENT START-END | 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm ET CHECK-IN BEGINS | 6:30 pm ET WHERE | Trident Books, 338 Newbury St, Boston, MA 02115 (<a href="https://goo.gl/maps/YihENdP2FErFqu8N9">map</a>) AGE RANGE | 20s: This event is centered on people in their 20s, but we welcome guests a year or two outside of that range who would feel comfortable being friends with people in the above age group. If you are outside of this age range, don't worry-- we have a lot of other events on our calendar, including all-ages events, that might be a better fit! FOOD/DRINKS | The entire Trident <a href="https://www.tridentbookscafe.com/menu">menu</a> of food and alcoholic as well as nonalcoholic drinks will be available for purchase, with many allergy-friendly options for food and drinks. PARKING / PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION | Limited parking lot spots and street parking may be available nearby, but public transportation is recommended. ACCESSIBILITY &amp; OTHER VENUE DETAILS | Wheelchair accessible, gender-neutral bathrooms available, noise isolation devices used. For ASL and any other accommodations not listed, please see more info <a href="https://www.skipthesmalltalk.com/accessibility-and-safety">here</a>. COVID-19 PROCEDURES | Masking is optional, but recommended. What’s It Like? Do you wish you could have more of the kinds of conversations you have late at night where for some reason, you feel safe talking about the things you actually care about? Bring your friends (or come by yourself) and spend your Tuesday night at an event where you know everyone else is there for the same reason. We'll be offering "big talk" conversational prompts on them to get you started, and we'll have lots of structure to make sure that you actually talk to people and that it's not awkward. Not feeling like answering a particular question? No worries, we'll have plenty to choose from, like, "When are you the happiest?" and, "If you were going to become close friends with me, what would I need to know about you?" We'll give you ground rules to make sure you feel comfortable and safe sharing as much of yourself as possible while still feeling in complete control of how much you divulge. There will be food and drinks for sale! Check-in for this event will begin around 6:30 pm. Please do your best to arrive before 7:00 pm so we can begin as close to on time as possible. Skip the Small Talk is dedicated to providing an inclusive, welcoming environment for everyone. Check out our safety policy here: <a href="https://tinyurl.com/ststSafety">tinyurl.com/ststSafety</a>

All Women's Skip the Small Talk at Trident Books

EVENT START-END | 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm ET CHECK-IN BEGINS | 6:30 pm ET WHERE | Trident Books, 338 Newbury St, Boston, MA 02115 (<a href="https://goo.gl/maps/YihENdP2FErFqu8N9">map</a>) WHO | Anyone who feels a connection to the identity of “woman.” Gender nonconforming folks who feel connected to the identity of “woman” in some way are absolutely welcome. (We also host <a href="https://www.skipthesmalltalk.com/boston">other events</a> which include folks who don’t feel a connection to the identity of “woman”) AGE RANGE | All Ages: All guests of all ages will be enthusiastically welcome! FOOD/DRINKS | The entire Trident <a href="https://www.tridentbookscafe.com/menu">menu</a> of food and alcoholic as well as nonalcoholic drinks will be available for purchase, with many allergy-friendly options for food and drinks. PARKING / PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION | Limited parking lot spots and street parking may be available nearby, but public transportation is recommended. ACCESSIBILITY &amp; OTHER VENUE DETAILS | Wheelchair accessible, gender-neutral bathrooms available, noise isolation devices used. For ASL and any other accommodations not listed, please see more info <a href="https://www.skipthesmalltalk.com/accessibility-and-safety">here</a>. COVID-19 PROCEDURES | Masking is optional, but recommended. What’s It Like? Do you wish you could have more of the kinds of conversations you have late at night where for some reason, you feel safe talking about the things you actually care about? Bring your friends (or come by yourself) and spend your Wednesday night at an event where you know everyone else is there for the same reason. We'll be offering "big talk" conversational prompts on them to get you started, and we'll have lots of structure to make sure that you actually talk to people and that it's not awkward. Not feeling like answering a particular question? No worries, we'll have plenty to choose from, like, "When are you the happiest?" and, "If you were going to become close friends with me, what would I need to know about you?" We'll give you ground rules to make sure you feel comfortable and safe sharing as much of yourself as possible while still feeling in complete control of how much you divulge. There will be food and drinks for sale! Check-in for this event will begin around 6:30 pm. Please do your best to arrive before 7:00 pm so we can begin as close to on time as possible. This event is trans-inclusive. We do not tolerate transphobia at this or any of our events. Skip the Small Talk is dedicated to providing an inclusive, welcoming environment for everyone. Check out our safety policy here: <a href="https://tinyurl.com/ststSafety">tinyurl.com/ststSafety</a>

Skip the Small Talk at The Rockwell

EVENT START-END | 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm ET CHECK-IN BEGINS | 6:45 pm ET WHERE | The Rockwell, 255 Elm St, Somerville, MA 02144 (<a href="https://maps.app.goo.gl/neBm1EQ2oaxEJeVM6">map</a>) AGE RANGE | All Ages: While our events are centered on serving people in their 20's and 30's, all guests of all ages will be enthusiastically welcome! FOOD/DRINKS | There will be food and drinks for sale! PARKING / PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION | Limited street parking and parking lots available nearby. Also accessible via public transportation (Davis Square T Stop on the Red Line). ACCESSIBILITY &amp; OTHER VENUE DETAILS | Wheelchair accessible. Please call the host at (617) 628-4444 to let you in through the elevator in The Gorin Building. For ASL and any other accommodations not listed, please see more info <a href="https://www.skipthesmalltalk.com/accessibility-and-safety">here</a>. COVID-19 PROCEDURES | Masking is optional. What’s It Like? Do you wish you could have more of the kinds of conversations you have late at night where for some reason, you feel safe talking about the things you actually care about? Bring your friends (or come by yourself) and spend your night at an event where you know everyone else is there for the same reason. We'll be offering "big talk" conversational prompts on them to get you started, and we'll have lots of structure to make sure that you actually talk to people and that it's not awkward. Not feeling like answering a particular question? No worries, we'll have plenty to choose from, like, "When are you the happiest?" and, "If you were going to become close friends with me, what would I need to know about you?" We'll give you ground rules to make sure you feel comfortable and safe sharing as much of yourself as possible while still feeling in complete control of how much you divulge. There will be food and drinks for sale! Check-in for this event will begin around 6:45 pm. Please do your best to arrive before 7:00 pm so we can begin as close to on time as possible. Skip the Small Talk is dedicated to providing an inclusive, welcoming environment for everyone. Check out our safety policy here: <a href="https://tinyurl.com/ststSafety">tinyurl.com/ststSafety</a> Ready to Skip the Small Talk With Us? Grab a ticket since entry is on a first come first serve basis and we tend to sell out in advance for these-- once we are out of tickets, we will NOT be able to accommodate folks at the door. Want to check out what else is going on at The Rockwell? Check out their website <a href="https://therockwell.org/calendar/">here</a>. If you want to be the first to hear about our events before we sell out, feel free to join our mailing list at <a href="http://eepurl.com/cFVhMX">Skip the Small Talk Mailing List Sign-Up</a>. See our Skip the Small Talk question prompt card deck (and buy your own if you want) <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Skip-Small-Talk-Card-Deck/dp/1507221975/">here</a>. If you want to get more of a vibe of what our events are like, check out our <a href="https://www.skipthesmalltalk.com/faq">FAQ</a> (which also covers stuff like our refund policy, arriving late, age range, and hiring us for corporate/ college/ private events).

The Rockwell

EVENT START-END | 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm ET CHECK-IN BEGINS | 6:45 pm ET WHERE | The Rockwell, 255 Elm St, Somerville, MA 02144 (<a href="https://maps.app.goo.gl/neBm1EQ2oaxEJeVM6">map</a>) AGE RANGE | All Ages: While our events are centered on serving people in their 20's and 30's, all guests of all ages will be enthusiastically welcome! FOOD/DRINKS | There will be food and drinks for sale! PARKING / PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION | Limited street parking and parking lots available nearby. Also accessible via public transportation (Davis Square T Stop on the Red Line). ACCESSIBILITY &amp; OTHER VENUE DETAILS | Wheelchair accessible. Please call the host at (617) 628-4444 to let you in through the elevator in The Gorin Building. For ASL and any other accommodations not listed, please see more info <a href="https://www.skipthesmalltalk.com/accessibility-and-safety">here</a>. COVID-19 PROCEDURES | Masking is optional. What’s It Like? Do you wish you could have more of the kinds of conversations you have late at night where for some reason, you feel safe talking about the things you actually care about? Bring your friends (or come by yourself) and spend your night at an event where you know everyone else is there for the same reason. We'll be offering "big talk" conversational prompts on them to get you started, and we'll have lots of structure to make sure that you actually talk to people and that it's not awkward. Not feeling like answering a particular question? No worries, we'll have plenty to choose from, like, "When are you the happiest?" and, "If you were going to become close friends with me, what would I need to know about you?" We'll give you ground rules to make sure you feel comfortable and safe sharing as much of yourself as possible while still feeling in complete control of how much you divulge. There will be food and drinks for sale! Check-in for this event will begin around 6:45 pm. Please do your best to arrive before 7:00 pm so we can begin as close to on time as possible. Skip the Small Talk is dedicated to providing an inclusive, welcoming environment for everyone. Check out our safety policy here: <a href="https://tinyurl.com/ststSafety">tinyurl.com/ststSafety</a>

LGBTQIA+ Skip the Small Talk at Aeronaut

EVENT START-END | 6:30 pm - 8:30 pm ET CHECK-IN BEGINS | 6:15 pm ET WHERE | Aeronaut, 14 Tyler St, Somerville, MA 02143 (<a href="https://goo.gl/maps/mJNCMVAca1qdTQ3o8">map</a>) AGE RANGE | All Ages: While many folks who attend our events are in their 20s and 30s, all guests of all ages will be enthusiastically welcome! FOOD/DRINKS | Beer, nonalcoholic beverages, Venezuelan food from <a href="https://www.carolicious.net/#menu">Carolicious</a> (with allergy-friendly options), and gourmet chocolate will be for sale. PARKING / PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION | Limited parking lot spots and street parking may be available nearby, but public transportation is recommended. ACCESSIBILITY &amp; OTHER VENUE DETAILS | Wheelchair accessible, gender-affirming bathrooms available, 21+ with government-issued ID’s required, optional noise isolation devices used. For ASL and any other accommodations not listed, please see more info <a href="https://www.skipthesmalltalk.com/accessibility-and-safety">here</a>. COVID-19 PROCEDURES | Masking is optional, but recommended. What’s It Like? Do you wish you could have more of the kinds of conversations you have late at night where for some reason, you feel safe talking about the things you actually care about? Bring your friends (or come by yourself) and spend your Monday night at an event where you know everyone else is there for the same reason. We'll be offering "big talk" conversational prompts on them to get you started, and we'll have lots of structure to make sure that you actually talk to people and that it's not awkward. Not feeling like answering a particular question? No worries, we'll have plenty to choose from, like, "When are you the happiest?" and, "If you were going to become close friends with me, what would I need to know about you?" We'll give you ground rules to make sure you feel comfortable and safe sharing as much of yourself as possible while still feeling in complete control of how much you divulge. There will be food and beer for sale! Check-in for this event will begin around 6:15 pm ET. Please do your best to arrive before 6:30pm so we can begin as close to on time as possible. Skip the Small Talk is dedicated to providing an inclusive, welcoming environment for everyone. Check out our safety policy here: <a href="https://tinyurl.com/ststSafety">tinyurl.com/ststSafety</a>

S22: conversations

Wondering what to do in Boston? Places to eat? Free activities? Good for a group? Date night spot? Girls night out? The best things to do? Ask Joyraft!

Best places to go in Boston? Things to do? Places to eat?

Questions & answers about things to do in Boston

Recs 💬

Community recs 💬

S4: top picks

The most fun, cool and unique things to do in Boston. Can’t miss events, shows and experiences. Concerts, restaurants, bars, free things in Boston and beyond.

The most fun and cool events happening around Boston

Hot and new things to do in Boston

Hot & new

Hot & new 🔥

S11: happening this weekend

What to do in Boston this weekend? From festivals, concerts, performances, free events, screenings and more, Joyraft has the best things to do in Boston.

25+ things to do in Boston/Cambridge/Somerville this weekend

Things to do in Boston this weekend

This wknd

This weekend for you

S21: roundups

Our top picks: outdoor dining, free events, spring festivals, best bars, upcoming concerts, museum parties - the latest in and around Boston.  Slug: joyraft-top-picks-best-things-to-do-boston-ma

Top picks of the best things to do in and around Boston

Joyraft picks: Boston’s best things to do

Roundups ⭐️

Curated by Joyraft ⭐️

S28: calendar experiences

This week in Boston

This week in Boston 📆

This week 📆

S20: c+d experiences

Discover new, unique events and experiences happening in and around Boston. Perfect for date night, good for a group or with a friend. Be the first to know.

The newest events happening in and around Boston

The newest events on Joyraft

Just added

Just added to Joyraft

S16: editor picks

The most unique and can’t miss things coming up in Boston / Cambridge / Somerville and beyond. Festivals, food, drinks, fairs, concerts, art and free activities.

Unique and Can’t Miss Things to Do in Boston

Can’t-miss things to do in Boston 🚨

Can't-miss things to do 🚨

S2 (A): top experiences

The most popular things to do on Joyraft. Concerts, restaurants, bars, events, parties, openings, kid friendly, date ideas, free things in Boston and beyond.

Top 20 things to do in Boston

Top 20: Joyraft’s most popular

Top 20

Top 20 on Joyraft

S3 (A): trending experiences

Discover can’t miss events and things to do in Boston. The most fun, unique and cool events coming to the Boston area this spring and summer.

The hottest events happening in Boston

Trending events on Joyraft

Trending 📈

S17: interest based

Your guide to everything free in and around Boston. From events, to fairs, to festivals, to outdoors. Joyraft has all the free events happening near you.

100+ free things to do in Boston and beyond

Free things to do in Boston

Free things to do

S19: interest based

Kid-friendly events in Boston

S18: interest based

Where to eat and drink in Boston? Joyraft has Boston’s newest bars, restaurants and specials. Drinks and pre fixe dinner menus. Cambridge & Somerville too.

skipthesmalltalk

Experiences

Skip the Small Talk at Aeronaut

30s Speed-Dating (Monogamous)

Poly Bi & Pan Speed-Dating (21+)

LGBTQIA+ Skip the Small Talk at Trident Books

Skip the Small Talk at Trident Books

30s Speed-Dating (Monogamous)

BIPOC Skip the Small Talk at Long Live Roxbury

Skip the Small Talk Online

Ace-Spectrum Bi & Pan Speed-Dating (20s and 30s)

30s Speed-Dating (Monogamous)

20s Skip the Small Talk at Trident Books

All Women's Skip the Small Talk at Trident Books

Skip the Small Talk at The Rockwell

Skip the Small Talk at The Rockwell

LGBTQIA+ Skip the Small Talk at Aeronaut